Prevalence of Female-Perpetrated Abuse among Middle-Class Men in Ibadan Metropolis, Nigeria: Implications for the Culture of Peace

Abstract

This study examined the prevalence, forms, and socio-cultural dynamics of domestic violence against men in the Ibadan Metropolis, Nigeria, with a focus on identifying the most common types of abuse and the attitudinal barriers that hinder disclosure and help-seeking. Using a mixed-methods approach, quantitative data were collected from 292 respondents through structured questionnaires, while qualitative insights were obtained from interviews with key informants, including social workers, community leaders, and representatives of non-governmental organisations. Quantitative findings revealed that emotional abuse (88.7%), intimidation and threats of violence (91.1%), and sexual coercion (90.4%) were among the most prevalent forms of abuse, alongside significant levels of physical violence. Qualitative narratives illuminated patterns of coercive control, marital entitlement, and emotional degradation, underscoring the complexity of male victimisation beyond physical harm. The study also found that cultural norms linking masculinity to dominance and emotional stoicism, coupled with the fear of ridicule and inadequate legal protection, serve as powerful deterrents to disclosure. The findings suggest that male victimisation is a critical yet under-acknowledged aspect of domestic violence, with significant implications for public health, legal reform, and peacebuilding. The study recommends culturally grounded sensitisation campaigns, legal amendments to protect male victims, the establishment of confidential support services, and multi-sectoral partnerships to ensure inclusive intervention frameworks. By addressing the silencing of male survivors, the research contributes to a more balanced understanding of gender-based violence and calls for policies that protect all victims regardless of gender.